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Thanksgiving Tips by Karina Dach

11/24/2015

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So excited that our first Guest Blog Post is by a wonderful friend and fellow therapist, Karina Dach, NCC, Licensed Mental Health Intern.

5 Tips to Help You Have the Best Thanksgiving Ever:
 
USA Today estimates over 40 million Americans will be traveling this Thanksgiving. We spend hours, sometimes days, in cars, trains, and airplanes just to be with our families/friends on the Holiday, sometimes even when we anticipate a needed vacation after we get back. No matter how dreadful we feel it may be, we manage to get ourselves through it. But what if this year we decided to shake things up and do things a little differently? Here are 5 tips that will help:

1. Identify your goal
Before you head out or welcome your guests in think about your goal. Remember to keep it as specific and attainable as you can. Start by asking yourself questions. Here are a few to get you started:
  • “What do I want to accomplish when I am with my family/friends this year?”
  • “What is motivating me to spend Thanksgiving with my family/friends this year?”
  • “What am I willing to do differently when I am with my family/friends this year?”

2. Do your research
Give yourself a refresher course on the family members and friends you are about to see. Social media such as Facebook can help.  Don’t get carried away, a brief overview will do, but the more you know the more you’ll have to talk about. Check out if they’ve found a new job, started dating someone, recently had a break up, just got back from a trip or headed some place new. Knowing some basics can break the ice even when you feel you don't have much in common with the person you find yourself talking to. ​

3. Take a time out

Seeing people you haven’t seen in a while can feel overwhelming. If you find yourself feeling anxious or irritable, allow yourself a moment to pause and reset. You can always find space to be alone. Don't hesitate to step outside or excuse yourself to the bathroom if you'd like. It can be a good idea to privately assess your thoughts and feelings.

4. Embrace that “get me out of here” feeling
You probably anticipated feeling this way for at least some of the holiday celebrations. Since you expected it, welcome it. The longer you tolerate this feeling, the less you’ll feel bothered by it. Try it. See if it works.You may find that the harder you try to get rid of this feeling, the harder it will be for you to move past it. Accept the feeling without judgment and allow the feeling to be. Just sit with it until it changes on its own. 

​5. Reward yourself

Don’t forget to acknowledge your accomplishments. It is so easy to minimize our successes, but remember to reward yourself for your effort. If you feel like you didn’t do as well as you hoped, don't worry! There's always next year!
 
Happy Thanksgiving.

Karina Dach M.S., NCC 
Registered MHC Intern
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